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Monday, 31 July 2017

Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other

Relationship Is For Those Who Are Willing And Ready To Forgive Each Other

Our intention most times determines the success of our relationship, not what anyone says.

Like we know that it is never possible for two people who are blood related to stay with each other for little period of time without offending each other.

So also, it is paramount that we know that two who are not related by blood nor gender can never be together in the name of love and expect an offense-free relationship.

Personally, i feel when your partner go wrong it makes you know more about them and how to handle them in the future.
I understand there are some offense that are hard to forgive, but love knows no offense as it even forgives before any offense is committed.

I have heard, read and witnessed some extremely bad situations whereby the partners of those involved still overlooked the sin and moved on happily.

One thing i used to tell those who care to listen to the sense making relationship nonsense that i say or write especially when they need to forgive their partner is that it can be anyone's turn, and it can be the other way round the next minute because we are humans and not spirit.

In a relationship, which other offense is greater than seeing your partner whom you have sacrificed all for moaning in confirmation of a great sexual experience under someone else?
For your information, I have seen couples who still moved on together after the above happened.

Believe me, it is never easy to forgive one's partner after such experience, in fact, many people will tell you to even run as far as possible from such partner.

Most times you take some decisions on your own when it comes to relationship because other are blind when it comes to what you see in your partner as they don't know your desires and the point of attraction.

This is not about the sacrifice or desperate measures you've taken to sustain the relationship, but the love making you to be as foolish enough to see reasons why you must forgive your partner.

This post is not just about cheating, it can be anything else apart from cheating.

The fact is that offense and forgiveness is what makes many relationship or marriage to be as strong as they are.

Remember, you are not a perfect man, neither is she a better woman, we are all striving to be the best to our partner.
And as your partner is trying all to be better for just you, you need to be ready to give room for mistakes.

I don't want to give some of the examples I have witnessed so as not to look as if I am on the side of one gender, because to me we are all the same, what is good for one goose is good for another goose.

As I am preaching forgiveness, it should make us to try harder at achieving great union free of scandal and divorce which is rampant this days.

This should make those that cheat see reasons why they must stop as it harms the partner emotionally.

Those that abuse their partner physically and mentally should also stop as the pain inflicted on your partner is more than your understanding, don't take the spirit of forgiveness which accompanied the love for granted.

In case you don't know; the day your partner stops forgiving you is when they stop loving you.

Don't abuse the spirit of forgiveness, don't do it to the point that your partner will see nothing attractive in you anymore.

Love is blind they say, you may not be the one to share the experience when the blindness receives healing.

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Saturday, 29 July 2017

#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

The former housemates of the Big Brother Naija show; Kemen, Thin Tall Tony, Uriel, Jon and Ese are sure enjoying their new found fame as they all looked stunning in these lovely promo shoot.
In the recent photo-shoot, Ese and Kemen stole the show as they had s*xiness to flaunt.
#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

#BBNaija: Ese and Other Housemates Strip Down in New Photoshoot

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Photos : Slay Queen Went Completely Nak-ed On Instagram to Flaunt Her Body

Photos : Slay Queen Went Completely Naked On Instagram to Flaunt Her Body

'Holiday the Golden Child' has posed stark n*de on Instagram to promote her page which currently has about 25,000 followers.

The young and curvy lady whose real name is currently unknown is popularly regarded as the 'Queen of South Beach'. She stunned her followers with pictures of her bum and boobs on display and has refused to take them down amid strong criticisms.

She is currently into event promotions, modeling and business. She is the owner of Holiday Cabello All Hair Needs and co-owner of Vline Miami.

She is presently carving a niche for herself on social media as the suggestive photographs have given her the targeted publicity.

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Photos : Slay Queen Went Completely Naked On Instagram to Flaunt Her Body

Photos : Slay Queen Went Completely Naked On Instagram to Flaunt Her Body

Photos : Slay Queen Went Completely Naked On Instagram to Flaunt Her Body

Photos : Slay Queen Went Completely Naked On Instagram to Flaunt Her Body

Photos : Slay Queen Went Completely Naked On Instagram to Flaunt Her Body

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Friday, 28 July 2017

Dear Broke Women : A Letter From A Mother To Women Who Want To Depend On Men

 Dear Broke Women : A Letter From A Mother To Women Who Want To Depend On Men
 Dear Broke Women : A Letter From A Mother To Women Who Want To Depend On Men.

Know this
I did not suffer labour pains for 4 days to deliver my son so that he could alleviate you from poverty that is the role of your parents
I did not carry my son for 9 months, struggle through his formative years
Struggle with his father to send him and his siblings to school so that you could demand he buys you expensive gifts. We did not Experience the anxieties of watching him head buried in his books studying for exams. Watched his father offer him words of encouragement as he lay awake wondering if he had been accepted into the University of his choice. His father and I sat there one of the proudest moments we experienced as parents watching him graduate.
Life was never meant to be easy getting a job was the biggest mountain he had to climb.
Do you know how many rejections from employers he received?
Do you know how it broke our hearts when we struggled to find words to keep his spirits up?

I remember the day I received that phone call he had finally made it he both his feet were now firmly on the ground. Then he met you a stunning goddess but to my dismay a woman who did not tire of talking about herself.
A woman who was empty inside a women who responded with " If you say so" when we spoke about current affairs. I realise now in hindsight your area of expertise was IG , FB & celebrity gossip.

A woman who laughed when I asked her what she hopped to do. You pointed at my son and said "he will take care of me now!"
Who will take care of you? My son ?
I don't think so. You are not his responsibility. He is not in servitude to pander to your whims.

He was distressed when he came to visit us he told me you wanted better accommodation you were tired of sharing, and you also wanted a car. How could he afford all this when he had just stared working?
You stopped talking to him it was heartbreaking to see his distress.
My son is not the IMF that bails struggling entities like you out of complete financial meltdown. He is trying to make you happy but happiness to you equates to money.
Dear broke women my son is not your ATM.

He owes you nothing, he is not obligated to do
Anything for you. He will do something because he wants to not because he has to or because you give him an ultimatum.

Dear broke women he owes no loyalty to you because all you seek is an opportunity. He is your salvation out of a situation. You don't love my son you love money.

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Wednesday, 26 July 2017

Being Broke Doesn't Make You Less A Man

Being Broke Doesn't Make You Less A Man

Being Broke Doesn't Make You Less A Man

I normally don't pay attention to subjects that disparages people, but a recent trend I observed on on social media platforms motivated this piece.

I have read comments and articles targeted at mocking young men trying to find their feet so as to live normal lives as humans. These comments and articles were either authored by fellow men that are naturally expected to understand the challenges of surviving in a modern Nigerian society or young ladies that should understand the struggles faced by their brothers, fathers and other male relatives.

To start with, that a young man is broke doesn't make him less a human. It shouldn't stop him from living his life, falling in love, starting a relationship and even get married to the one he loves.

Some have opined that a man must first be successful or enjoy relative success before approaching a lady that his heart yearns for under the guise of "every lady desires a comfortable life". Sadly, people with this line of thought forget that even the "broke" young man also desires a life of comfort even though the circumstance he finds himself may prevent him from enjoying such life in the Interim (I added "interim" because no condition is permanent).

My dear brothers, people may tag you poor and broke due to your incumbent financial and social standing but never allow it dampen your spirit. Never allow your present situation demean your zeal nor make you feel less of a man. As much as you strive for the big thing, do not despise that little thing that is capable of adding value to your life no matter how "degrading" it may appear. Always remember that Dr. Samuel Ortom, the Executive Governor of Benue state was once a bus conductor at Gboko motor park in Benue state, from which he graduated to being a commercial bus driver and later personal driver of a prominent man. It didn't stop him from rising to become salesman and sales manager of a food company. It never stopped him from becoming a local government chairman, minister of the federation and now governor of his state. Please my brothers, never despise that little trade or menial job.

Never allow yourself to be forced into frustration, crimes and other social vices. Instead of whining on your bed over negative words, please pick up a skill or learn a trade so as to erk a living for yourself. There is nothing more dignifying than engaging in legitimate venture in order to be productive. There is dignity in labour.

Never allow anyone to look down on you due to your financial state in your time of struggle. Keep up the struggle, always remember that "NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW".

If you are fortunate to have a lady that is willing to stand by you even in your state, please cherish her, make her happy and work extra hard so as to give her the life of her dreams. Never settle for just any girl nor allow yourself to be a backup plan. Only ladies that add value to your life by motivating you, sharing ideas with you, challenging you and praying for you are worth your heart.

Please, don't forget to pray to God for wisdom and guidance always. I'm sure one day your story will change for the better and those who laugh at you today will celebrate tomorrow.

May God Bless You, Bless Your Struggle and Bless Nigeria
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Monday, 24 July 2017

This is for the slay queens and kings

This is for the slay queens and kings
This is for the slay queens and kings

You can’t be dressed in a conservative manner and expect a fashionista look.

We all want to be successful but many of us don’t put in the necessary effort; that your little effort of yesterday cannot move a car not to talk of a mountain. To be a successful person is not automatic or by magic.

Don’t get too comfortable with yesterday’s achievement so as not to become a forgotten hero, update yourself every day.

The applications in our smartphones are being updated by the programmers regularly to serve the users better same can be applicable to people. Forget yesterday’s achievement and strive to achieve more.

You see people achieving great things, you hear them talk about their dreams and how they work tirelessly day and night to achieve these things but you are there always wow-ing like a siren.

Why can’t you be the one achieving these great things?

Does it mean you belong to the wow-ing category?

Does it mean that applauding is your hobby or you are comfortable with the status quo?

Slay queens and slay kings; I love your shirt, your make up is amazing, you are the real #pepperthemgang.

I tell you today, let your brain and achievements do the #pepperthemgang for you so that you won’t become very useless like the most expensive empty Hennessey bottle.

Slay with your brain and achievements then spice it up with that great looks.

No amount of effort, endurance and sacrifice is too much for you to pursue your goals, just make God the most powerful your spinal cord; and you will see yourself catching-up with your dreams!
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These are they 5 things that are killing your Relationship

These are they 5 things that are killing your Relationship
These are they 5 things that are killing your Relationship 

Relationships aren’t supposed to be selfish, while considering yourself it is important and only fair that you take a step back and also consider your partner – consider how you might be hurting your partner and things you might be doing to turn your partner off. Jumia Travel shares 5 things you do that hurt your partner and kill your relationship in the process.

Living Outside What the Two of You Can Afford

It is important to live within what the two of you can afford. Once you’ve decided to be in a relationship with someone, you have to learn to respect what the person is earning per time and adjust your expenses to align with it. Avoid belittling and insulting your partner for the inability to meet your expenses, rather learn to love and appreciate while adjusting your expenses to align, or work hard, alongside your partner, to increase earnings to be able to accommodate these expenses.

Constant Negativity

In relationships, you should learn to choose your battles. Even if your partner is doing something wrong, it’s not every wrong thing that you comment on, complain about or intend to change. Choose your battles. There are somethings you should just let go off completely or let go off in the mean-time to address later. You have to be wise about it. Negativity is draining and constant complaints are irritating, therefore it is important to learn to encourage, celebrate and appreciate your partner more.

Putting Everything Else First

Everyone likes to feel special and when in a relationship, it should be a priority to make your partner feel special as often and as much as you can. Your partner should always be your first priority. Even if you have to deal with something else before your partner, be courteous and let your partner know either before or after you’ve taken care of whatever it is. Remember, no one likes to feel unimportant, including you.

Forcing Your Partner to Conform To Your Ideals

Remember, your partner is not your doppelganger. As much as you two might have a lot in common, you can’t have everything in common. Therefore, there are certain things you will allow your partner do or believe out of respect for who they are, to make them feel comfortable and to make them feel loved. It might not make you feel comfortable at all, but if it matters to them or they are unable to change it (no matter how hard they have tried), you don’t force them, you learn to accept and accommodate them that way.

Being Unkind

Be kind to your partner in your words, in your thoughts, in your actions and in your deeds. Be kind. Always ask yourself before you do or say something to your partner, ‘Is this kind?’, ‘Can he or she bear this without falling apart?’. Kindness is simply the quality of being friendly, generous and considerate. Remember to be kind.
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FINAL WHISTLE : The journey of life

FINAL WHISTLE : The journey of life
FINAL WHISTLE : The journey of life

I watched a local football match in
a school playing ground.
As I sat down, I asked one of the boys what the
score was.
With a proud smile, he replied; "They are leading us 3-0" !!!
I observe that you don't seem to be discouraged.
"Discouraged?" the boy asked with a puzzled look.
Why should I be discouraged when the referee has
not blown the final whistle?
Truly, I didn't have an answer to this question!
As I got back home that night, his question became a course in my life.
Life is like a game.
Why should you be discouraged when your Referee, The Almighty God, has not blown the final
whistle on your life?
The truth is that as long as there is life, nothing is impossible & it is never too late for you.
Half time is not full time & HIS calendar is not man's.
Whatever God promised to do for you, that shall He do.
Dont blow the whistle on yourself.
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Thursday, 20 July 2017

15 signs that would prove if you're ready for love or not

15 signs that would prove if you're ready for love or not
15 signs that would prove if you're ready for love or not

Everyday men and women enter into relationships and marriages HOPING for the best only to be astonished when they realize that the person responsible for ruining their marriage or sabotaging their relationship was the man or woman in the mirror. They were unprepared for love… but they had no idea. Are you ready for love? Find out by taking this critically appraised self-examination.
Examine Yourself…
When it comes to love, sex, relationships and marriage, most men and women take the position, “Ready or not, here I come!”. They will dive into a relationship or marriage with little or absolutely no preparation. At best they are drawing straws. At worst they are rolling the dice. The statistics prove that the majority of men and women who gamble at love will eventually lose. Don’t wager with your love life.
In II Corinthians 13:5, we are commanded to examine ourselves. This self-examination is crucial if you intend on finding and experiencing True Love. This examination entails 15 key tests to help you and a potential mate determine if you are actually ready for love. The test starts now!
“I love you!” “I love you too!” Most people who express those heartfelt words have no idea what True Love is neither the responsibility that goes along with it. I regularly meet men and women who claim they have been in love three or more times in their life. They met someone, fell in love, broke up with them and repeated that sequence of events with numerous lovers. One woman told me she had been in love with eight different men. She married and divorced four of them. Truthfully, True Love never ends. If what they had were True Love, it wouldn’t have ended. They’d still be together, (See I Corinthians 13). How does one define True Love and who sets the standard? God defines what True Love is and He alone sets the standard for love. It is only through His Word can we learn what True Love is. If you obtained your definition or interpretation about love from any source, you have been misled, (See I Thessalonians 4:9).
You are not ready to be in a relationship until you are able to forgive those who have offended or hurt you. If you are the type of person who can hold a grudge or harbor resentment or hard feelings, pull yourself off the market! You are a danger to yourself and to your potential mate, (See Mark 11:24-26 and Matthew 18:21-22).
I frequently meet men and women who were sexually active in times past, dreadfully, many of them contracted sexually transmitted diseases. But because they were classified by medical science as being asymptomatic, (which means they had no symptoms) they had no idea of their alarming dilemma. I could share countless heart-gripping horror stories of husbands and wives who ended up infecting their spouses with…
• (HPV) Human Papilloma Virus
• Gonorrhea
• Hepatitis B
• Herpes Simplex Virus
• Chlamydia
• Syphilis
• Trichomoniasis
If you were sexually active in the past and have not taken a battery of tests for sexually transmitted diseases, pull yourself off the market. Even if you have no symptoms to speak and even if you practiced safe sex, GET TESTED! If you fail or refuse to do so, you are guilty of jeopardizing the physical safety of another human being. God forbid, but what if you did contract the HIV/AIDS virus, Chlamydia or HPV but are symptomatic?
We are literally inundated with books, DVDs, CDs, therapists and marriage counselors attempting to help troubled couples learn how to talk to each other. An art they should have learned prior to saying, “I do!” Here’s what they didn’t learn before exchanging wedding vows, but you must:
• Proper listening skills
• How to respect another person’s opinion or point of view
• Talking and communicating non argumentatively
• Admitting when you are wrong
• Saying, “I’m sorry,” when the moment requires
• How to disagree honorably
• How to speak the truth in love
• When to remain silent
• How to diffuse tense moments
This should be a no-brainer! However, many men and women enter into relationships and marriages with no concept that male and females are different species. They either fail or refuse to honor our (male – female) uniqueness. If you only see things from a man’s perspective or from a woman’s point of view, you are not at all ready for love. And you won’t be ready until the day comes when you can respect the differences of the opposite sex without grumbling, bickering or backbiting.
I once had a woman fire a verbal barrage of indignant words at me after I advised her to pull herself off the market. She had been molested as a child and blamed the entire male gender for her traumatic experience. In spite of her openly detestable view of all men, she insisted on seeking a husband. Being that she is an attractive woman, she will no doubt find a man who doesn’t comprehend the magnitude of her bitterness. The divorce courts have a constant stream of couples who split for no other reason than one of them held on to deep-rooted animosity against the opposite sex. If you are harboring ill feelings toward the opposite sex, you must resolve your issue(s) before dating, courting or entering into a marriage covenant. By not doing so, you make yourself become the prime ingredient in a recipe for marital failure. Like mishandled sulphuric acid, your ill feelings will eventually spill over and burn your spouse, (See Hebrews 12:15).
If you are prone to temper tantrums, explosive bursts of anger or harmful emotional outbursts, please pull yourself off the market! Make no mistake about it; you are not ready for love! Your disposition will surely be your courting or marital demise, (See Proverbs 22:24-25 and Proverbs 29:22).
A soul tie is when you have feelings for an ex boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, fantasy lover or past sex partner. If you long for a person, secretly wish you were with them, fantasize or daydream about them, or think about them sexually, pull yourself off the market! You are not ready to be in love with another person until you sever that soul tie, (See II Corinthians 10:5).
Issue such as…
• Unforgiveness
• Drug/Alcohol Addictions
• Secret Sins
• Child Support
• Criminal Issues
• Pornography Addictions
• Paternity Fraud
• Psychological Issues
• Baby’s Momma Drama
• Divorce issues
• Jealousy Issues
• Current Relationship Issues
• Control issues
• Abuse Issues
• Manipulation Issues
If so, pull yourself off the market until you get them resolved. Unresolved issues almost always come back to haunt you. (Read Col. 3:5)
More spouses have ended up in the divorce court because they held on to unrealistic expectations before they married. For example, he expected they were going to have sex everyday, two and three times a day. Or, she expected that her husband was going to worship the ground she walked on and treat her like she was the Queen of Sheba and Prince and Princess of Monaco.
When things don’t turn out as they dreamed or fantasized, these people become disappointed and eventually abandon, defraud or divorce their spouses. The way to insure that you don’t have unrealistic expectations is to talk to happily married couples. Ones who have been married for ten years or more. Find out from them the ebb and flow and various nuances of the married life. No offense, but you cannot obtain this vital information from single people, disgruntled couples or from bitter divorces.
Every marriage will face challenges, but the ones that stand the test of time are the ones in which both spouses are rooted and grounded in the Word of God and prayer, (See Luke 6:47-49). If your spiritual foundation is unstable, put the brakes on love and get your footing firmly established.
If not, you must pull yourself off the market immediately! There are too many snares for you to take a chance and hope that things work out for the best, (See II Timothy 2:26). Pervasive snares such domestic violence, sexually transmitted diseases, paternity fraud, dating abuse, marital fraud, stalking and spousal murder. Don’t take the path traveled by most men and women, which is to stick their heads in the sand and act is if these things don’t exist. Or the other worn out path, which is the false belief that if you attend church you are immune to these things.
One of the prime reasons divorce and domestic violence is so prevalent in the church is because most Christians have received improper or no training at all in these critical areas. They knew nothing about the snares, booby traps and pitfalls until it was too late! Can you recognize when a potential mate is wearing a mask? Can you identify the various sex traps? Are you able to discern when someone is attempting to lure you into an abusive relationship?
Are you able to identify paternity fraud predators or females shopping for disposable dads? If you cannot, you are not properly trained to reign in the area of love, sex, relationships or marriage.
In a society rift with divorce and children born to single mothers, many men and women have a distorted view of the marriage covenant. Before you proceed with love, getting an understanding of the marriage covenant is a must for both you and any potential spouse. The best place to acquire this vital information is in pre-marital training.
This is a critical step to having a successful and vibrant a marriage. People who skip or reject this training process are not serious about having a love that lasts. At minimum, here are the areas that must be covered:
• Understanding what True love is
• Understanding and honoring the marriage covenant
• Communications 101
• Conflict resolutions 101
• Understand a man’s needs
• Understanding a woman’s needs
• The dangers of being unequally yoked
• The duties of the husband
• The duties of the wife
• Recognizing love, sex and relationship booby traps
• Recognizing pre-marital pitfalls.
A person who is not willing to engage in pre-marital counseling with a potential spouse is literally a walking time bomb. Their unwillingness or refusal clearly reveals that they have rejected the Written Word of God, (See Proverbs 1:20-33 and Proverbs 15:12,22). That makes them a dangerous person. Never proceed with marriage plans with a person who is unwilling to participate in pre-marital counseling. Never! Whew, you can take a much needed breather! The self-examination is finally over, how did you fare? Are you ready for love? Or, do you need to make some adjustments first before proceeding forward?
Thanks so much for taking time to read through this write up.
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10 Relationship Commandments for Women

10 Relationship Commandments for Women
10 Relationship Commandments for Women

1. Don't be in a hurry to move out
of your parents house.
2. Don't wait for a man before you
start living. You can live a fulfilled
life as a single woman.
3. Stay away from alcohol. It has
killed others and you are not
4. Don't entertain a wrong
number call, especially at night. Its
not the right way to find a lover.
5. Develop a healthy eating habit.
Always take breakfast and avoid
6. Dress well: Impression count.
People will judge you by the way
you dress even before they talk to
7. Don't use sex as proof of love.
Sex is no proof of love, he'll leave
you after the sex.
8. Don't marry for the money, else
you'll become one of his
9. Add value to yourself- get a
career. Don't be fooled that a man
will solve all your problems.
10. Beauty is not everything. If it is
all you have, you'll lose your place
to someone beautiful, better more
matured and competent than

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Wednesday, 19 July 2017

9 truth every lady must admit

9 truth every lady must admit to
9 truth every lady must admit

1. Sex doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn
360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach
until you become white, if he doesn't notice
the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave
2. A man who win your love with cash may
not stay forever. Real men doesn't settle
down with fake women who love money.
3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a
Palace but her character will determine how
long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts
men but character keep them.
4. Material things definitely has its merits
but it cannot alone provide the riches of a
truly meaningful life.
5. Being sexy without a character will not
get you a husband, you will only get a
6. Sex can bring pleasure but it can never
bring love, sex is a product of love, love is
not a product of sex.
7. Sex can make a man stay with you
overnight but love will make him stay for a
8. There are some things that money just
can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.
9. How you dress will definitely determine
how men will address you.

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Tuesday, 18 July 2017

Self discovery : My attitude is based on how you treat me

My attitude is based on how you treat me.
My attitude is based on how you treat me.
You may say am timid because of how I laugh and look,
You may say am colorful because of how I overlook the multicolors on my dress and makeups,
You may say I have a bad lifestyle because of how I carry and see myself,
You may say am this, am that, but in the midst of all that you think of me, Success is my only option.
I take happiness as my priority and success as my lifestyle.
You may be thankful that you're not like me, but you don't know how blessed I am to know that am not like you, because my weakness is my strength and only reason for success.
People make derision of me, they even break my heart without any form of petty, am okey by that because pain makes me stronger, fear makes me braver and heartbreaks makes me wiser.
You can say all you want about me and I won't care, because in this my little journey to greatness, am willing to be mocked, hated and misunderstood.
Just incase you didn't know, I was born to make mistakes and not to fake perfection.
I am a woman who is big enough to admit my mistakes, smart enough to profit from them and strong enough to correct them.

Anyway, I rest my case because in the next five (5) years, none of this shit will matter. So, you can go ahead and broadcast my failure while whispering my success.
Make a choice today, either walk with me or work for me. The choice is yours, choose wisely.

My attitude is based on how you treat me.

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Sunday, 16 July 2017

This lady deserves to be flogged: Slay queen exposes her full boobs on social media. See Photos!!!!!

This lady is deserves to be flogged: Slay queen exposes her full boobs on social media. See Photos!!!!!
This lady is to be flogged
A young lady has attracted undue attention on social media after gallantly exposing her big boobs on her Instagram page.
In the name of ‘slaying’ which has become a common word in the Nigerian social media circle for expensively dressed ladies or people with exotic appearances, this unnamed girl put herself in the news.

The young girl flaunted a large chunk of her breasts as she ditches her bra in a skimpy top. This has led to all manner of flirtatious comments from perverts and other manners of criticisms.

Female folks nowadays share such pictures in order to gather likes and swell their social media accounts regardless of the moral costs
This lady is deserves to be flogged: Slay queen exposes her full boobs

This lady is deserves to be flogged: Slay queen exposes her full boobs on social media.
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Saturday, 15 July 2017

When a woman is truly in love with a man, this happens

When a woman is truly in love with a man, this happens
When a woman is truly in love with a man, this happens
1»When a woman love you, she will do anything possible to be with you.
2»When a woman loves you, she will sacrifice her happiness to make you smile
3»When a woman love you, she will not delay accepting you as a lover, when she have accepted you, she will show you care and give you attention needed in relationship or
4»When a woman loves you bro, she will do things that make your friends and you thinks she is
throwing herself on you.Bro! She truly love you so much, don't take her love for granted.
5»When a woman love a man, she will call the guy on phone more than the guy calls her everyday.
6»When a woman truly love a man, she will visit you all the time, calls you, helps you,care and give you attention more than she gives herself and family.
7»When a woman loves a man, she will do what she vows not to do in this life. She will do it for you and for love
8»When a woman truly love a man, she will turn down other men who approaches her
9»When a woman truly love you, she gonna be romantic, care for you, respect you, encourage and supporting your dreams in this life, she will do anything possible to assist you achieve it.
10» When a woman truly loves you, she will surely want the best for you, she will not cheat on you or hurt you, she will let everybody know that she loves you, she will be
proud of you bro,she want nothing but marriage.
YES OR NO. Please be honest cos I need one. Hahahaha
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Tuesday, 11 July 2017

Demi Lovato Sends a Message to Her Haters With "Sorry Not Sorry"

Demi Lovato Sends a Message to Her Haters With "Sorry Not Sorry"
Demi Lovato Sends a Message to Her Haters With "Sorry Not Sorry"

Demi Lovato is as confident as she ever was.

In honor of Amazon Prime Day, Lovato released "Sorry Not Sorry," the lead single from her forthcoming sixth studio album. "Sorry Not Sorry' is a song to the haters that is basically saying, 'You know what? I'm good now. And sorry I'm not sorry that you may not be loving where your life is at the moment,'" she tells Amazon Music. "A lot of people hear the song and they think it's about an ex-boyfriend or something like that, but it's actually just a song about the haters."

The music video features cameos from Paris Hilton and Wiz Khalifa, among others. "It's not as intense as you think it is. It's a lighthearted song, and so the video is going to be lighthearted, too. You don't want it to seem angsty. You don't want it to seem angry by any means," she says. "So, the video is going to be a giant house party. I threw a house party a couple months ago, and it ended up being so random and so much fun, and we want to recreate that for the video."

Lovato is currently putting the finishing touches on her untitled album, a follow-up to 2015's Confident. Though she recently teamed up with Cheat Codes ("No Promises") and Jax Jones ("Instruction"), Lovato says her album won't be as dance-focused. "I would love to collaborate with Eminem. He's gone through a lot and he raps about recovery, which is something that I'm passionate about," she tells Amazon Music. "I feel like we can make something great together."

Will Lovato's fans get a chance to see her perform "Sorry Not Sorry" at some point? "Maybe," she says. "It's not set in stone right now, but I'm always going to end up touring a some point."

Before the release of "Sorry Not Sorry," Lovato shared an open letter to fans on Instagram. "Thank you for allowing me to take the time I needed at the end of last year to step away from all the craziness. I'll admit, I was worried that people would get upset with me. But what I saw was that instead of getting upset, literally every single one of you wrapped your arms around me and showed me how unwavering your love and support is," she wrote. "I'm so happy that I was able to come back to writing music more energized and inspired than ever, and to be able to give my all and more, to this new chapter. 'Sorry Not Sorry' is the first of many songs that I've been working on, and I can't wait for you guys to hear all of them. I hope this song makes you get off your seat and dance like you never have before. This is an anthem for anyone who's ever been hated on and has risen above it and come out from the other side like a f--king savage!!!"
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Must Read : Ladies, Please grow up

Ladies, Please grow up
Ladies, Please grow up

He won’t use condoms, You use pills.
why? Because he wants it natural?
(think of ovarian cancer and infertility).
He gets you pregnant, You have aborted like 5 times.. why? Because he is not
ready! GROW UP!
He is tired of natural place for copulation,
He moves to your ass Saying 'its tighter'
Then u begin to leak n smell..
why? Because u want to please and not
loose him.. GROW UP!
You have been wearing his engagement
ring for close to 4yrs,
He is not wearing any.. why?
Because he has promised you marriage.
MY SISTER; He wants a Blow job Yet he won’t give you head.. why? Cos he feels u are not so clean “there”. GROW UP MY SISTER!
You dress half naked thinking you look sexy and Hot, He isn’t complaining But he has more cloths on. Don’t be surprised when he takes a more decent girl home.
A guy dumps you, you wanna pay him back and all you could do is to sleep with his friend? and you think this is pay back? hahaha!
You think getting pregnant for him will make him marry you? GROW UP GIRL!
You become a single mama with No Job,
No means of feeding your Baby and
yourself so, You leave junior with Grandma and you go back to the Hustling field, then you begin to say, "MEN Are Wicked!"
Whose fault?
Please ladies, be wise!
You know you deserve better than this.
Don't always be at the loosing end!!!
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Sunday, 9 July 2017

15 Signs Indicating That You Are A Real Man

15 Signs Indicating That You Are A Real Man
15 Signs Indicating That You Are A Real Man

Imagine a man who’s got status, beauty, fame, influence, masculinity, wealth and mental prowess to mention but a few. Would you define that to be the ‘make up’ of a real man?
There are different things for different people. But in real essence, a real man has qualities that separates him from the ordinary men. Some may list all of that as their definition but there’s more to that in the context of marriage and life in general. Following are these indisputable qualities that makes for a real man.
1. You lead by example and not by words
Just like children who loves to imitate what adults do, women too loves to learn from who they truly love. He takes the lead while he encourages her to follow. You will not only tell people to do something, you also do what you told them.
2. You are driven by purpose and not by pleasure
A real man gets purpose to his life first, pursue it and persevere in achieving it before pleasure while other men seek pleasure without getting a definite purpose for their life.
3. You have a future and would only marry someone who fits into it
Real men don’t date every Tom, Dick and Harry. They are very selective in choosing the kind of woman that fits into the big picture they dreamt of. They are occupied with their pursuit than to ‘double’ or ‘multiple’ date women.
4. You prayerfully look for a wife to marry and not date multiple ladies
Since the choice of a marital partner requires effort, real men prayerfully seek God’s face on whom to marry. They don’t choose by trial and error or ‘bed’ sample every available ladies.
5. You decide to love your woman sacrificially showing commitments to her alone
Feelings are temporal and love is not to be built on it. A real man takes the decision to love his partner/spouse and he is committed to her well being.
6. You patiently allow your woman to grow up to the kind of person you want
It takes patience to boil a stone soft. A real man understands the power of patience and will not enforce his will or decision on his wife/partner. While knowing his, he respect hers also.
7. You respect every woman in your life
Respect they say is reciprocal. Men wants respect but a real man respect every woman in his life. He values her feelings, opinions and decisions. He will never disrespect, abuse or humiliate her.
8. You are financially sound and independent
Men are at their best when they are financially buoyant. A real man has source(s) of income. He does not depend, rely or scramble for financial help. He works to earn a living and not beg to make a living.
9. You are matured and responsible for your actions
A real man does things because they want to do it and not because they are influenced or under pressure. Maturity is a great mark of identity for real men.
10. You are principled and does not compromise it
Other men may live their life without been defined. They waste time on frivolities, entertain aimless visit, lack of priority or pursue worthless ambitions. This is not the case with a real man. He has a standard on which his life pivots and would not go off the track or compromise it.
11. A real man’s love is guided by the fear of God
Show me a man who will never cheat on his wife when he has all the opportunity to do so, and I will tell you he’s held back by the fear of God. Love can fall into temptation but a man that fears God will not cheat or succumb to pressure.
12. You cultivate women and not culture them for sex
Most men think about sex, this is normal. But a real man makes a woman better than he has found her. If he’s not going to marry her, he teaches her how to respect her values and embrace her dignity. But other men does the contrary.
13. You do not see yourself doing a woman a favor by marrying her but you see her as a helpmeet
Some men see it that way. They brag about it and act in that manner. But a real man sees his wife/partner as someone that would contribute to his success in life.
14. You are not intimidated by your woman’s success or achievements
Some lazy, uneducated or uncivilized men will feel inferior when their woman succeed more than them. A real man is not intimidated because he is highly successful and proud of himself.
15. He is not abusive or violent
Some men are gentle but violent while others may be aggressive. A real man does not exhibit any of these trait. He is cool, calm and collected. He will not vent his anger on anybody, hit the wall when he is angry or kick the door. He knows how to manage his emotions wisely.
These lists are endless. I’ve only listed few out of the numerous qualities that real men posses.
Now, it’s your turn…
What other signs do you think, feel or know that makes a real man?

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Thursday, 6 July 2017

Begging for affection is one mistake you must never make

Begging for affection is one mistake you must never make
                       Begging for affection is one mistake you must never make
The greatest mistake one can make is to beg for love. Love is our inalienable right and can't be taken nor stolen. Love comes to us naturally without begging, so relax, there's no need to rush.
The only reason why you don't feel loved is because you are not yet ready, or because you haven't found the right person yet.
Everybody has someone destined for him/her, rushing or begging for someone's love only drives you into the arms of a wrong person.
Patience is the key, the key to joy, success and happiness. Learn to wait for love and not beg for love.
If anyone expects you to beg for their love, walkout cause they're not worth it.
True love come at a right time and it doesn't come alone, it comes with Joy, Fulfillment, Happiness, Peace and blessing.
Please be patient. Never you give up on love nor beg for love

© Mfon Elisha's Blog 2017

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Wednesday, 5 July 2017

Why date for sex when you could date for love ?

Why date for sex when you could date for love ?
Why date for sex when you could date for love ?

The rate at which people date for sex nowadays has become alarming. Yes! Sex can be satisfactory but love is fulfilling. Why takeaway someone's pride when you could help in building it?
Most people might say "Love is not my thing" simply because they have made several wrong moves without realizing it, or maybe, they have been rejected a couple of times and they think it's all over for them. But no, there is more to a relationship that's built on the solid foundation of love. Sex satisfies your want but love carefully attains to your needs. Love is the root to inalienable joy which is enjoyed by all it's victims , while sex is just they leave that's ready to fall when the wind blows. We are special, unique in our own way and blessed.
Sex must not be the starting point of a relationship, it can come later

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Monday, 3 July 2017

After heartbreak, what next ?

After heartbreak, what next ?
After heartbreak, what next ?

After heartbreak, what next ?

Love can meet rejection. Love can meet humiliation. Love can meet frustration. Love can be unreciprocated. But when our rejection, humiliation, and frustration, finally turns to shame, we feel so stupid, and often resort to depression.
Shame is a monster. It does not think. And when it finally thinks, it thinks UPSIDE DOWN.
Any heartbreak that induced shame unchallenged and unrestrained often leads to depression.
After heartbreak, what next? It ranges from anger, to frustration, to loneliness and may get to shame and depression. But can I show you hope after a heartbreak ?
Let me give you a practical example from a book I read, EYE OF NOWHERE
"Your younger sister is getting married, and you can't even keep a steady relationship. Wasn't it the same things I taught you that I also taught her? So why can't you get a good husband?"
Mum's nagging was beginning to grow on me. My recent breakup was now the new song in the house and I was the subject of every prayer point. I struggled with shame, even though it was no fault of mine. Mine is a culture that forces a woman to look for a husband, only to be termed cheap and desperate.
But I held on to hope. My mentor, Tekena Ikoko, had taught me that at night seasons, our values will be tested but in the morning seasons, they will attract their kind. Two years later, morning came. As I danced up the altar to take my marital vows, I took a quick look at the excited faces of the guests. Indeed, success has many friends and failure is an orphan.
Whenever shame is replaced with hope, hearts are healed.
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