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Being Broke Doesn't Make You Less A Man |
I have read comments and articles targeted at mocking young men trying to find their feet so as to live normal lives as humans. These comments and articles were either authored by fellow men that are naturally expected to understand the challenges of surviving in a modern Nigerian society or young ladies that should understand the struggles faced by their brothers, fathers and other male relatives.
To start with, that a young man is broke doesn't make him less a human. It shouldn't stop him from living his life, falling in love, starting a relationship and even get married to the one he loves.
Some have opined that a man must first be successful or enjoy relative success before approaching a lady that his heart yearns for under the guise of "every lady desires a comfortable life". Sadly, people with this line of thought forget that even the "broke" young man also desires a life of comfort even though the circumstance he finds himself may prevent him from enjoying such life in the Interim (I added "interim" because no condition is permanent).
My dear brothers, people may tag you poor and broke due to your incumbent financial and social standing but never allow it dampen your spirit. Never allow your present situation demean your zeal nor make you feel less of a man. As much as you strive for the big thing, do not despise that little thing that is capable of adding value to your life no matter how "degrading" it may appear. Always remember that Dr. Samuel Ortom, the Executive Governor of Benue state was once a bus conductor at Gboko motor park in Benue state, from which he graduated to being a commercial bus driver and later personal driver of a prominent man. It didn't stop him from rising to become salesman and sales manager of a food company. It never stopped him from becoming a local government chairman, minister of the federation and now governor of his state. Please my brothers, never despise that little trade or menial job.
Never allow yourself to be forced into frustration, crimes and other social vices. Instead of whining on your bed over negative words, please pick up a skill or learn a trade so as to erk a living for yourself. There is nothing more dignifying than engaging in legitimate venture in order to be productive. There is dignity in labour.
Never allow anyone to look down on you due to your financial state in your time of struggle. Keep up the struggle, always remember that "NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW".
If you are fortunate to have a lady that is willing to stand by you even in your state, please cherish her, make her happy and work extra hard so as to give her the life of her dreams. Never settle for just any girl nor allow yourself to be a backup plan. Only ladies that add value to your life by motivating you, sharing ideas with you, challenging you and praying for you are worth your heart.
Please, don't forget to pray to God for wisdom and guidance always. I'm sure one day your story will change for the better and those who laugh at you today will celebrate tomorrow.
May God Bless You, Bless Your Struggle and Bless Nigeria
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