How can a relationship be interesting without sex?
Like everything, it's important to understand that sex is not purposeless. That you feel like having it does mean that you are permitted to unlock it .
The keyword is PURPOSE; not passion, not feelings.
Again, it's important to understand that relationships don't exist for sex. Sex is not a prove of love. You don't tell people you love them by communicating the Language of sex with them. Sex is a function of an institution called marriage. Within that institution, Sex with your partner is a blessing. Enjoy sex in marriage; that's God's purpose for sex—enjoy it, yes, in marriage.
Please note these:
1. Sex in a relationship does not improve character nor strengthen relationship vision. Don't press for sex; Wait for sex.
2. When sex is stolen, marital foundations are polluted. How far can a relationship go with a polluted foundation?
3. Sex unlocks depth. The mistake is to get intimate with a wrong spirit. Little wonder it becomes difficult to break free from some kinds of relationship.
How then can a relationship be interesting without sex?
1. Love the right person
The most rewarding aspect in a relationship is to experience the journey with the right person. The wrong person will always put you under pressure to compromise your decision to maintain sexual purity.
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2. Enjoy companionship
In the first relationship God initiated, companionship was the real essence. Harness activities that will keep you in each other's view without threat, intimidation and fear. Build excitement knowing that you're in love with someone.
3. Increase intellectual bonding.
There's no active relationship without an unbroken discovery of your partner. Bond intellectually.
Be interested in being a part of each other's life—concerns, experiences, burdens, schedule.
4. Think pure.
Constrain your thoughts to imagine pure thoughts. A polluted thought can't offer clean intentions. Guard your mind. Don't imagine yourself undressing her in your mind. Don't imagine yourself sleeping with her.
Respect her enough not to wish her bad in your thoughts.
5. Share goals. Support each other.
Learn about each other's life goals, passion, interest. Explore activities that support your pursuits. Study together, pray together. Gist clean! I can't exhaust the list. Most of these activities are pre planned.
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Don't allow premarital sex become a distraction in your relationship. Relationships are to be enjoyed. There is a whole lot interesting about knowing each other, allowing them to be a part of our lives and sowing into the future. If sex is "hungrying" you, don't keep your relationship hanging. Push for marriage. That's a better deal.
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