Falling in and out of love happens. We celebrate falling in love but occasionally weep through life when what we felt would bring a lasting relationship goes the way of a mirage, holding no water when we thought that what we saw ahead was a stream of water.
A breakup probably freezes like one of your worst harmattan experiences, it hurts like a deadly snake bite, it cripples like an arrow from an undaunted Archer, it unsettles precious sleep like insomnia, and it denies appetite like unexpected sad news.
Well, when you can’t see a better future starring at you from whatever kind of relationship you are in today, it's obvious that forcing it to stay on will produce more hurt tomorrow. You can't force your leg into a shoe and expect to enjoy your walk with it. Some relationships are not worth missing when they end. Its end should be celebrated, at least with some hot pepper soup. I wouldn't mind joining you at least for the meat.
Don't lock up your life in misery because one person changed his or her mind from loving you. Encourage whoever must change his or her mind towards you to do so now —now that he or she is still an option. To crack your life because someone walked away from it makes you a nut.
You are someone's hot cake, relax! The blind cannot see what you carry. The shortsighted can't see your worth. They bounce in an out like pendulum. Time will tell. Some people will be crying for walking out of your life. Others will shed tears for treating you like a rag. Others will use style to get back your phone number they long blocked. Keep your past aside and forge ahead! Don't stain your future with your past. Face the future to prove your past wrong. Some relationships had better ended today; They can't birth nor hold your future.
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