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There are some people who are repeating the trends of their parents when it comes to the issue of sex.
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Mother once had an abortion while young or had a child out of wedlock and you’ll see the same manifest in the life of her daughter.
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Men too are not exempted. While he was a young man, at the prime of his youthfulness, he impregnated ladies for the fun of it and when he eventually settled down, his son took after him.
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Is that a curse? In most time, no except an evil verdict or pronouncement was made in the worst case scenario. For instance, when a man refuse to claim responsibility over the woman he made pregnant and she uttered a word bitterly or in pain, he’s attracted a curse upon his life.
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Ladies, I know the urge to have sex is usually high during post-puberty years up to the point of when you’re of age and you’re still single. The fire of attraction and pressure from the opposite sex can light a candle.
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But before you’d subscribe to that demand, why not think twice before it becomes a norm or a repetitive pattern in your family?
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If your mother never had such experience, it’ll be better for you not to start what you won’t be able to finish or would transfer to your unborn child. It’s not a curse, some call it the law of karma but there’s the law of sowing and reaping that can never be broken in life – what you sow, you reap!
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And to the young men out there, I know you want to prove a point to show your friends that you’re a man or that you’re exposed and not an impotent. Think twice before you allow your erection reorder the destiny of your unborn children.
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One thing about ‘like father, like son or like mother, like daughter’ syndrome is that the children are more proficient than their parents. Take a survey to find out also.
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Another reason why you must shun premarital sex is that when you become a parent and you have indulged in the act, your conscience wouldn’t allow you scold any of your children that are at the verge of doing such. It’s either you skip such discussion, take it lightly or ‘forcefully’ say it while your conscience pricks you.
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And in most cases, it’s very rare that a child who was born out of wedlock won’t repeat the same. It’s either the child had PRAYERFULLY dealt with the issue or God ‘allowed’ his discipline to curb such from repeating itself. Many don’t have the grace for the latter.
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If you noticed it’s becoming a norm or a trend in your family, ‘Our Lord’s prayer’ wouldn’t break such circle of negative pattern except your prayerfully break it and deliver yourself neither will mere ‘discipline’ without the fear of God help you.
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Shun premarital sex, it pays off in the long run because it will save you from starting a negative chapter for your life and unborn children.
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Honestly, I know it’s very difficult when the hormones secretes the desire, ‘free’ invites and lots of temptation are lurking around, but come to God that can help you rather than stay in the world that wouldn’t help you.
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If lots of parents who had such experiences while growing up knew God when they were young, their life would have been much better than that.
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No matter how ‘good’ the society would define it or the point he or she would try to prove to you that makes it ‘right’, premarital sex is an outright evil which when you indulge in it, quitting takes the grace of God, it’ll commence an evil trend and your life would be exposed to the consequences that comes with it.
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The fact that it appears that everyone is doing it doesn’t make it right and true. There are waiters who are waiting for the right time, the right environment (marriage) and the right person. Join the club! Embrace self-control and the fear of God, these would greatly help.
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