Safe sex : Things you need to know

Of a truth, body-no-be-firewood, I must tell and to say a person doesn’t like sex could either mean he or she has no libido for it or he or she has been castrated.
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Sex is one of the gift of God to mankind. He gave us the instinct, the hormones and the organs to complement the act at a point in time.
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Heterosexual form of sex was what He designed but men, due to their increased knowledge that failed to regard God, created means for homosexual form and other means to practice safe sex.
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God’s original plan for sex is safe as long as man is ready to adhere to His pattern. What’s difficult when a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and they two shall have sex for as long as they want?
Do you want to enjoy safe sex? Here are the things you must know about it.
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1. It’s in marriage
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The only atmosphere where God designed sex to be safe is in marriage. Marital sex is safe and sweet because you wouldn’t have any regret or suffer from insatiable sexual urge.
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Premarital sex or extramarital sex isn’t safe, if you like use twenty condoms or the best birth control pills. You know why? They come with their shades of regrets.
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Premarital sex is fornication and extramarital sex is adultery. These two sins are punishable by God (Heb. 13:4). Don’t say you’ll ask for forgiveness, He’ll give you but it doesn’t take away its consequence.
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The consequences of premarital or extramarital sex is too gruesome on your destiny because you’re bonded with whosoever you have sex with.
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2. Through abstinence
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For singles who are not yet married, the only way you can embrace safe sex is to embrace abstinence.
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I know it could be some times difficult when your hormones secretes the desire to have it or your thoughts flashes through the scene, but hold onto self-control.
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Don’t listen to the myths associated with abstinence. You have nothing to lose, fear or worry about if you’re celibate. Those who live a sexually loose life always envy those who choose to be celibate.
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Abstinence would help you to enjoy sex at the right time, with the right frame of mind and with a complete body when you have thoroughly found the right person.
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3. Condom doesn’t guarantee it
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Because perversion is at its peak, the society crave for contraceptives to facilitate safe sex. It’s unfortunate that they only have a distorted view of safe sex.
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Using condom or any other contraceptives doesn’t guarantee safe sex. Sex is first spiritual, there’s a oneness that latex cannot prevent. It is then emotional, your souls fuses together to create a tie. The best contraceptives in the world cannot solve it.
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It is only the physical act of sex that the society tries to create a safe scenario for. The chances of getting pregnant when you use condom is high because a little spill of the semen can fertilize the egg.
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Tendencies are high that contraceptives would fail during the act. But the best method is abstinence.
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4. It’s safe when it doesn’t bring regret
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Think of the consequence of sex if you want to do it. Won’t you suffer from guilt, condemnation, sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancy or spiritually transmitted disease?
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Condom might prevent some but not spiritually transmitted disease. If you’re joined with a demon possessed or someone suffering from curses or generational bondage, having sex with such fellow makes you one with him or her.
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Many wouldn’t want to agree with this but that’s the empirical fact.
Isn’t it better to have sex with your own wife or husband than to have it with someone else’s future spouse? I’m sure you have nothing to regret with the former.
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5. No other precautions can help
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Since the likes of anal, oral and phone sex is fast evolving, many blindly believe that sex is safe if it’s not vaginal sex.
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Some youths even resort to fondling each other’s sexual organs, caressing and french kissing; all these are pathway into sexual intercourse. How? Sooner or later, you’ll get to point where you’ll lose control, when orgasm has been reached and the very act will be concluded.
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Not even masturbation or self-servicing can help you achieve safe sex. It doesn’t matter if scientists has a hundred and one reasons why it’s right, anything that contradicts God’s pattern is wrong.
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No amount of precautions can be taken that would ensure safe sex if you shun sexual purity, abstinence or marital sex. They may appear ‘safe’ at the initial but they’re loaded with regrets later in the future.
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Before you trade the truths you know for the society’s definition of safe sex, no sex is safe if it violates the Creator’s pattern.
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© Mayowa Adeniyi 2015

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